Behind a Photo

I post a lot of pictures. Especially of my children. There’s no arguing that. Setting my photography business aside, taking photos for me is both a hobby and creative outlet. I love capturing little moments throughout the day – whether at home with my little ones or out and about. These are memories I will cherish forever and I’ve never regretted taking a single photo.

What I do regret sometimes, is sharing them online.

I’m not worried about my children growing up and getting upset that their faces were plastered all over social media. In fact, I think by the time they are old enough to care, social media will be such a natural part of life – used for business, education, etc. – it may be for their benefit to have early records and memories of their childhood documented. Especially in a fond and positive way. I never want to portray them in a negative light or share things that may embarrass them later in life. So of course, most of my photos consist of smiles and laughter and sweetness.

But there is a life going on behind the photos that isn’t always as pretty. And sometimes when I only share the sweet moments, people think they know my children, when they really don’t. I’ve had people make comments to me about my children, based on photos, that are completely way off base. And this… this is what concerns me. This is what makes me regret sharing.

I’ve tried to find the balance between being “real” and also respecting my future “adult children,” by not sharing every little blowout (literally and figuratively). Do I let people keep making assumptions? Or do I correct them when they say something completely off base about my child? Should I stop sharing photos altogether? Or do I just suck it up and realize this comes with the territory? These are the questions that I mull over daily. And I’ve been getting into mama-bear mode frequently, where I just want to protect every piece of who they are.

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Micah is witty, creative, adventurous, but cautious at the same time. He talks in sentences, most of which is astonishingly understandable. He loves sports – any sport – and never wants to miss out on a party. A lot of times, he brings the party with him.

Hannah is sweet, strong and fiercely independent. She can be as quiet as a mouse and in two seconds pierce your eardrums with the loudest shrill. She loves attention, but is particular about who gives it to her. Feed her, and you have her heart.

These are who my children are today. They are always changing and growing. I have no desire to box them in or create their identities for them. I want them to be who God created them to be.

I love that we have the internet to share photos and document stories and feel connected. I love that long-distance family and friends can feel a part of a happy moment in our lives just by sharing a picture.

And I really don’t mean to be rude or pompous or arrogant with this concerned-mama-bear post, but if I could make one request and plea to you it would be this – when you meet my child for the first time, don’t assume that you already know them because you’ve seen their picture online. Take the time and really get to know who they are. When you do that, you will see that there is a lot more to the story behind a photo. And I can guarantee you that 100% of the time, you will prefer the original.

 

White Family | Portraits

It’s been almost six months since I started my photography business. In some ways I cannot believe how fast time has flown! And in other ways, I feel like I have been doing this photography thing forever. It’s been such a joy to document memories for so many wonderful families. My favorite thing, hands down, has been watching families grow. From maternity, to newborn, to family sessions. There is so much love and joy to be captured in every stage.

Jen and Trey White’s beautiful little girl, Madison Grace, was one of my very first newborn sessions back in early May. Just a few weeks ago, I had the joy of taking some family portraits of all three of them! Madi has grown so much in just a few short months and has the sweetest deposition. It didn’t take much to get her to smile! I am so happy I get to share with you today a little glimpse of that joy.

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If you live in the Central Florida area and would like to have me as your photographer, please visit my photography page for more details and pricing!